Myth #1: Sex Is Not Complicated

Here is the first video from my Sex Myths series from last year! In these videos, I break down different myths about sexuality.

Myth #1: Sex is not complicated. Other variations of this myth include, “When the time is right, you’ll know what to do,” “Sex is simple,” and my personal favorite, “Oh, you’ll figure it out.” (Yikes!) All too often, people feel immense amounts of shame and self-doubt when something doesn’t seem to be going right for them in the area of sexuality and intimacy. More often than not, there is absolutely nothing wrong with them and what they are experiencing is quite “normal,” they simply just don’t have enough accurate information!! When one actually considers how many factors play into experiencing a healthy relationship with sexuality – “simple” is simply the last label they would choose.